Why do chicks love stalkers?

[~Msv~]

4:1 he rocks up with an overnight bag

2:1 his overnight bag also doubles as a body bag.

[frogman]

stalk·er - A person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.


My issue with it is the woman who married her 'stalker' is misrepresenting her condition, which is a disservice to people who are actually stalked.
You know, it kind of reduces the meaning associated with the word if every guy who looks her way more than once is labelled a stalker, like how the word 'cunt' isn't just a reference for a womans genitalia, or how an 'idiot' is no longer a medal label, but just another insult.

Also i'm not labelling myself a 'she'

I was taking sex out of the equation for a second, but lets have a look at the quote, shall we? Chay said "because she's a human with complex emotions and a limited vocabulary?" to which you replied "It's much shorter to write 'she's dumb' " to which I said "no, thats wrong"

You called her dumb because she is a human with complex emotions and a limited vocabulary. Which is exactly what you are.

[Curare]

If he does he's a fool

Everyone knows you only get laid when you're totally unprepared, i.e dodgy undies with holes in them, 50c in your wallet and just on your way to get fish and chips.

Or is that just me :S

[Scorpius]

4:1 he rocks up with an overnight bag

Haha, I'll take those odds

[BLEGH!]

could do with a stalker that snuggles on the couch and will bring me soup when i'm sick ie. NOW.



forever alone

[chay]

Chay you are up ridiulously early.
Are you stalking?

hah, no - my timezone is not TS standard-time

What's that saying, women need to feel needed, men need to feel admired?

that's a saying, yeah. i have a new one:

PEOPLE need THINGS that are sometimes different from other people, even people of the same sex!

crazy, huh

[miss_p*]

Panda, you underestimate. He is doing the overnight bag the night before. Which I won't be. Not to his knowledge anyway, im going to go catch up with some friends in Van and just say im not in town until Tues.I


Im also going to ask if he can bring me some of this cos I love it and we cant get it in Canada.

[Scorpius]

Will he be able to get it across the border?

[Curare]

A man or woman you brings you beer is no stalker.

If he sits outside your house and drinks beer while choking the chicken, that's a stalker.

[Borya]

that's a saying, yeah. i have a new one:

PEOPLE need THINGS that are sometimes different from other people, even people of the same sex!

crazy, huh

Orly? I have another one: there are lots of different truths out there, all contradicting themselves silly!

[frogman]

Orly? I have another one: there are lots of different truths out there, all contradicting themselves silly!

Of all the different truths out there, what you said was not one of them.

[Scorpius]

A man or woman you brings you beer is no stalker.

If he sits outside your house and drinks beer while choking the chicken, that's a stalker.

Haha! THIS!

[Borya]

Of all the different truths out there, what you said was not one of them.

You missed the point of me saying it, why are women's actions always put in the spotlight on this site and not men's? I've been waiting for some reciprocal analysis that never comes. Actually maybe you didn't miss it, considering the defensiveness.

[Curare]

I think we're getting somewhere with this.

Person likes you and acts: possible love interest.
Person likes you and acts in strange ways: weirdo.
Person likes you and hovers around but is incapable of action: Stalker.

When they finally do act it'll probably be to maim your pets and/or grandmother.

[frogman]

You missed the point of me saying it, why are women's actions always put in the spotlight on this site and not men's? I've been waiting for some reciprocal analysis that never comes. Actually maybe you didn't miss it, considering the defensiveness.

wait wat? I have no idea if you are a male or a female, and its highly irelephant. What you said was wrong.

I am also highly amused to hear that I dont highlight guys saying stupid things.

And looking to TS to lead the way on gender rights is a laughable scenario anyway. Most of the people on here have no idea about it, and Chay is one of the last people I would take to task over this.

[Kevin]

You missed the point of me saying it, why are women's actions always put in the spotlight on this site and not men's? I've been waiting for some reciprocal analysis that never comes. Actually maybe you didn't miss it, considering the defensiveness.

The secret to an effective thread is to take a position. Usually one that is outdated and polarising. This then forces a discussion. If you ask it in a clinical and from an unbiased position it usually fizzles

[geisha]

If he does he's a fool

Everyone knows you only get laid when you're totally unprepared, i.e dodgy undies with holes in them, 50c in your wallet and just on your way to get fish and chips.

Or is that just me :S

you could always solve the dodgy jocks issue by just removing them. she'll think you're cool cause you're free balling lol

[Curare]

Nah, daks are a must or I'll keep tripping over my dick when I walk.

[chay]

You missed the point of me saying it, why are women's actions always put in the spotlight on this site and not men's? I've been waiting for some reciprocal analysis that never comes. Actually maybe you didn't miss it, considering the defensiveness.

Sorry I misunderstood... though i'm not sure how your post was meant to ignite that discussion? saying (not very pointedly?) that "men do x, women do y!" among a whole other page of (apparently genuine) comments that "men do x, women do y!" didn't really communicate that clearly.

The secret to an effective thread is to take a position. Usually one that is outdated and polarising. This then forces a discussion. If you ask it in a clinical and from an unbiased position it usually fizzles

you cheeky rascal *ruffles hair*

[~Msv~]

Nah, daks are a must or I'll keep tripping over my dick when I walk.

You dont tie it in a bow? Although this can be excruciating if you get a random boner...

[Curare]

You hadn't really thought that one through had you?

[Scorpius]

Nah, daks are a must or I'll keep tripping over my dick when I walk.

Tuck it into your sock?

[Curare]

I wear thongs a lot

[Scorpius]

I wear thongs a lot

Even in this cold, shitty weather we're having now? I thought it'd be more conducive to dick-tucking!

[~Msv~]

You hadn't really thought that one through had you?

It was working fine until I 'bumped' into Kev...

[Curare]

Hehe, being an engineer I just wondered what the coefficient of expansion for cockmeat is.

Clearly I've been in this office too long today.

[Scorpius]

Hehe, being an engineer I just wondered what the coefficient of expansion for cockmeat is.

Clearly I've been in this office too long today.

Wouldn't it be a function of blood flow and arousal?

[Curare]

Explain mass shrinkage from swimming in cold water?

[Scorpius]

Explain mass shrinkage from swimming in cold water?

Hey, hey... i've done my part as the mechanical engineer. Your turn

[~Msv~]

Explain mass shrinkage from swimming in cold water?

Clearly your most important appendage is trying to stay warm for all the ladies, so it hides inside your warm body!

[Borya]

The secret to an effective thread is to take a position. Usually one that is outdated and polarising. This then forces a discussion. If you ask it in a clinical and from an unbiased position it usually fizzles

No need to explain, I think it's a lovely thread.

[discount]

I really don't understand some of my fellow males, some of them become fixated on a woman that is unattainable and waste valuable time chasing her.
The time spent getting nothing from one woman could of been spent dating others.

Unfortunately a friend of mine can become a stalker/creepy when he is single, not in a dangerous way, just in a creepy reeks of desperation way.

A girl broke up with him, he knew her email and facebook passwords so straight away started logging in and reading her stuff, and found out she fucked some other dude the day after they broke up.
So I said well that's good you discovered she is a slut and luckily you did not waste more than a few months of your life with her.

I have no idea why, he was completely fixated with winning her back and was reading her email/fb several times a day, I told him straight up it's extremely creepy stalker behaviour, not to mention very illegal.

Fast forward about 18 months, they got back together, I'm no longer in Perth so don't really know the details on how it came about, but I unfortunately suspect that he kept reading emails/fb and waited for the right moment to get in contact again and re-initiate the relationship.

[c_avdas]

that's skeezy as all fuck

[chay]

I really don't understand some of my fellow males, some of them become fixated on a woman that is unattainable and waste valuable time chasing her.
The time spent getting nothing from one woman could of been spent dating others.

Unfortunately a friend of mine can become a stalker/creepy when he is single, not in a dangerous way, just in a creepy reeks of desperation way.

A girl broke up with him, he knew her email and facebook passwords so straight away started logging in and reading her stuff, and found out she fucked some other dude the day after they broke up.
So I said well that's good you discovered she is a slut and luckily you did not waste more than a few months of your life with her.

I have no idea why, he was completely fixated with winning her back and was reading her email/fb several times a day, I told him straight up it's extremely creepy stalker behaviour, not to mention very illegal.

Fast forward about 18 months, they got back together, I'm no longer in Perth so don't really know the details on how it came about, but I unfortunately suspect that he kept reading emails/fb and waited for the right moment to get in contact again and re-initiate the relationship.

i'm not getting how her fucking another dude after they broke up makes her a slut?

i'm also not getting how spying on your exgirlfriend's personal online spaces, for over a year is only "desperate" and not "dangerous" - he has shown a deliberate disregard for her privacy and a willingness to manipulate that information for his own gain, what other boundaries will he happily skip across the next time someone does something he's not happy with?

[frogman]

I really don't understand some of my fellow males, some of them become fixated on a woman that is unattainable and waste valuable time chasing her.
The time spent getting nothing from one woman could of been spent dating others.

Unfortunately a friend of mine can become a stalker/creepy when he is single, not in a dangerous way, just in a creepy reeks of desperation way.

A girl broke up with him, he knew her email and facebook passwords so straight away started logging in and reading her stuff, and found out she fucked some other dude the day after they broke up.
So I said well that's good you discovered she is a slut and luckily you did not waste more than a few months of your life with her.

I have no idea why, he was completely fixated with winning her back and was reading her email/fb several times a day, I told him straight up it's extremely creepy stalker behaviour, not to mention very illegal.

Fast forward about 18 months, they got back together, I'm no longer in Perth so don't really know the details on how it came about, but I unfortunately suspect that he kept reading emails/fb and waited for the right moment to get in contact again and re-initiate the relationship.

Yeah this is fucked and if she doesnt know that he was reading her FB and emails for more than a year, then she needs to be told. Thats worse than just creepy or desperate. And nice slut shaming. Its always good to see the victim getting blamed.

[~Msv~]

i'm not getting how her fucking another dude after they broke up makes her a slut?

Cmon chay, we all know if a chick sleeps with someone then she is an auto-slut but if a guy sleeps with someone then he is a legend

[miss_p*]

2:1 his overnight bag also doubles as a body bag.

lol noooo how did i miss this post!

[miss_p*]

[Curare]

So, can we add anything that says "I'm back" as being stalkerish?

[discount]

i'm not getting how her fucking another dude after they broke up makes her a slut?

i'm also not getting how spying on your exgirlfriend's personal online spaces, for over a year is only "desperate" and not "dangerous" - he has shown a deliberate disregard for her privacy and a willingness to manipulate that information for his own gain, what other boundaries will he happily skip across the next time someone does something he's not happy with?

Well there is not an actual definition of what a slut is, maybe I am a bit conservative but I find when someone breaks up with a partner and within 12 hours of last having sex with her ex is already gobbling some other guys cock, that is promiscuous behavior that I consider on the slutty side.

I don't know for a fact he read her personal stuff for a year I shouldn't of said that as it's pure conjecture, I never asked as I don't want to know, they also had mutual friends so never really lost contact completely due to the odd social occasion meeting so potentially reconnected like that.

He never planned to do anything vengeful like posting nude pics of her online, I would of done far more to stop him if he went into that territory, just found it difficult to let go and that was his way of holding on.

Is it a creepy invasion of privacy? definitely.
Dangerous? knowing the dudes history no he isn't dangerous

[Satan]

Shouldn't HAVE, Would HAVE

[heist]

super creepy super invasion of privacy

that story has all kinds of broken all over it

[frogman]

Well there is not an actual definition of what a slut is, maybe I am a bit conservative but I find when someone breaks up with a partner and within 12 hours of last having sex with her ex is already gobbling some other guys cock, that is promiscuous behavior that I consider on the slutty side.

Ok, now realise that you are pushing your moral standards onto other people, which is a shitty thing to do. Then realise that retconning the amount of time downwards isnt helping your situation.

I don't know for a fact he read her personal stuff for a year I shouldn't of said that as it's pure conjecture, I never asked as I don't want to know, they also had mutual friends so never really lost contact completely due to the odd social occasion meeting so potentially reconnected like that.

He never planned to do anything vengeful like posting nude pics of her online, I would of done far more to stop him if he went into that territory, just found it difficult to let go and that was his way of holding on.

Is it a creepy invasion of privacy? definitely.
Dangerous? knowing the dudes history no he isn't dangerous

Oh, well, as long as you know he isnt dangerous, thats fine then.

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I mean, the secret service can get it wrong, but im sure your judgement is spot on and perfect.

[chay]

Well there is not an actual definition of what a slut is, maybe I am a bit conservative but I find when someone breaks up with a partner and within 12 hours of last having sex with her ex is already gobbling some other guys cock, that is promiscuous behavior that I consider on the slutty side.

no, but there is a definition of what a single person is...a person not in a relationship

you can have whatever moral outrage you like about her not observing the appropriate 21 days of mourning, but a person not in a relationship is under no obligation to anyone to not gobble anyone's cock they like

its funny because this brand of slut shaming is usually comes from the same kind of person who cries about how spontaneous cheaters should just break up with their partners first if they want to gobble someone else's cock. lose/lose.

I don't know for a fact he read her personal stuff for a year I shouldn't of said that as it's pure conjecture, I never asked as I don't want to know, they also had mutual friends so never really lost contact completely due to the odd social occasion meeting so potentially reconnected like that.

He never planned to do anything vengeful like posting nude pics of her online, I would of done far more to stop him if he went into that territory, just found it difficult to let go and that was his way of holding on.

Is it a creepy invasion of privacy? definitely.
Dangerous? knowing the dudes history no he isn't dangerous

dude, his 'history' became dangerous when he knowingly, willfully and repeatedly (regardless of 1day or 1year) violated another person's boundaries for his own personal fulfillment. those actions are in his history, and can be repeated at any time in any context.

[discount]

Just to be clear, I agree, it's fucked up and when he admitted it to myself and another friend we both told him it's ultra weird and highly illegal and in his best interest to never do it again.
I hope he took the advice, unfortunately I left the country shortly after and have not spoke much since.
Saw the fb relationship change and thought the worst, but honestly have no idea what happened.

Even if she was single and fucked 2 random guys in the space of 12 hours I would still think the same thing, If you have a lock that is opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.

[frogman]

Even if she was single and fucked 2 random guys in the space of 12 hours I would still think the same thing, If you have a lock that is opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.

Oh fuck you. Just fuck off. I bet you that if a guy came along and did that you would high 5 him, but if a chick does it? nah, shes a slut. Double standard misogynistic bullshit of the highest order.

Lets get this straight, shall we. How often a single person has sex has exactly fuck all to do with you. It has fuck all to do with anything, and you labeling her as a slut for having sex with 1 person is fucked to the nth degree.

[chay]

Even if she was single and fucked 2 random guys in the space of 12 hours I would still think the same thing, If you have a lock that is opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.

ah huh. and a key that opens two locks in 12 hours?

*edit: beatn!

i'm open to the possibility that someone can think *anyone* who fucks more than 2 people in 12 hours is not woven from the same fine moral fiber as the rest of humanity, i'm not holding my breath though.

[heist]

guy girl

break up

girl moves on

guy obsesses, steals her passwords, spends many lonely nights reading through her private correspondence without her knowing


girl called slut

guy called "misunderstood but harmless"

[Hoser]

Discount I hope you feel chastised you are a BAD MAN!

[frogman]

Discount I hope you feel chastised you are a BAD MAN!

He is. He is a misogynistic jerk with shitty attitudes towards women. Its not all his fault, as he is a product of his upbringing, but its his fault for not examining his beliefs and challenging some of the more....how to say this..... outdated thought patterns.

His friend is a whole different kettle of fish though.